..how siblngs can affect your relationship..

By "sibling rivalry" we mean the antagonism or hostility between brothers and/or sisters which manifests itself in family fights (pulling of the sibling's hair or with the unwillingness to share a toy, and which try the patience of parents all over the world) to much more serious cases such as the permanent enmity between adult siblings because one is successful and the other is not.

Nature offers us many examples for sibling rivalry. The problem is basically one of competition for limited resources. Sharing creates the problem. Parents get exasperated and don't know what to do.

TIME, ATTENTION and LOVE is what parents need to give to each of their children. Simply simply looking at most families' photo albums you can see that this is indeed the case. Looking through these albums, one can see that there are usually many pictures of the birth and first year of their first-born child. For the second child, there are fewer pictures. And, from the third child on, one may have a hard time finding pictures of them in the album - it's as if they didn't even exist! This is because parents are thrilled when the first child is born. Their enthusiasm reduces afterwards. This has an enormous impact on that child and his or her later life. It is a common observation that, in most families, it is usually the first-born that has the greatest "success" in later and adult life. This jealousy and enmity continues later also and comparison kills the relationship. Counseling and therapy sessions can remove the jealousy from the siblings mind and let them lead a happy and wonderful life.

..gmbire + suke..

..p2tnye ari ni xde klas..
..lab da btal da, so free la..
..tp tbe2 ade klas physicl chemistry kul 11 gnti esk, kire esk xde klasla..
..xpela, at least esk xpyh bz2 nk g klas pg kn..
..ps2 tggu pnye tggu, sir xdtg pn..sbr je..
..ktorg pulgla ngn prasaan hampe sbb xde klas..huhu..
..smpai kt blik tbe2 dyorg btau ade klas 2 kul 1..xtgmbr prasaan mse 2 mcm mne..
..tp da agk da msti xrmai yg dtg..btul pn jgkaan daku..huhu..

..p2tnye buke ngn bdk2 ni ari ni, bleh plak ttdo..xp2t btul la aku ni..soweyla kwn2..
..dlm ksdehan xdp bke bsme 2, ade bnde yg xdsgke2 brlaku..
..tkjut sgt2..
..bkk frendster tke spe anta komen..
..jeng3..WAN..
..sbaek xde skit jntung, kalo x xtaula ape jd mse tgk komen dy 2..
..shuke2, sronok sgt..hehe..
..dy kt taiwan, dy kte rye kt bntulu nnt..
..at least dpt gk dy rye kt malaysia walaupn bkn kt umh sndr kn..

..sesat..

..boring btul ujung2 mggu..
..2 yg smlm kuar g kuantan, knon2 nk shoping rye..
..nek viva ijau, cmey btul.. tapi ain (rm8ku) yg bwk.. xbranila bwk..fobia.. huhu..
..first2 g east coast mall.. jln2la.. bdk2 ni shopg agk sakan la.. xde mud nk bli ape2..
..tgk2 je dyorg smbil jd pnasihat.. bbakat upenye aku dlm bab2 mnasihat ni.. hehe..

..da pnt pusing 1 east cost mall 2, ktorg g kp.. nk djadikn cte tbe2 tgk minyk 2 mcm plek je..
..risau plak, so niat dhati nk g isi minyk dlu la.. smpai simpg nk g shell 2, tbe2 kn.. jeng3..
..kete xbleh jln.. gear xnk msuk seyh.. pnyela panik, ain lgla.. da la kt tgh2 jln ni.. aduh..
..last2 pkcik teksi yg tlg bwkkn smpai shell 2 (smbil dktaweknla).. xpela, at least dy da tlg..
..ps2 dpt gkla isi minyk slps mnumpuh plbagai dugaan td..
..kuar ari ahad biasela rmai org kn.. tmbh2 lg nk rye ni mmg rmai xtkire la kn..
..nk cri prking kt kp 2 pnyela sush.. 3rd floor bru jmpe prking.. haish.. ps2 g la mmbli belah mcm biase..tp last2 bli kepek je pn.. xtau nk bli ape.. klaka btul.. huhu.. ps2 ingtkn nk g dtrn hotlink sbb kn ade hot fmdtg kt c2 kn.. yg klakanye mati2 ingt yg ktorg g 2 dtrn hotlink upenye bkn.. hehe.. tp bli jela mknn kt c2, sbb da lmbt lg pn.. kete nk kne anta sblum kul 5.. da bli2 2 nk grk blikla..

ujan tbe2.. syahdu je bnyinyekn.. bgitula gk syahdunye prasaan kitorg dlm kete ni sbb sesat xtau jln nk blik ump.. isk.. isk.. rsenye bpe kali pusg2 kt kuantan 2.. tensen abes dtmbh lg ngn akak kete yg tnye ble nk smpai.. msing2 tnye bdk lakijln blik mcm mne.. psrah jela nk kne ktawe ke ape kn.. yg pnting dpt blik.. thnxla kt esan.. byk mmbntu.. walaupn aku gne clcom, dy call gk gne no mxis 2.. mhl.. huhu..

..pengalaman btul ari ni..
..klaka ble ingt2 blek..
..yg pnting girls' date ktorg brjaye gk..
..ngeee..

..happy..

empty decorations - indecisiveI wake in the darkWith showers of life Moments of emptiness aroundFloating awayNo other hopeReality brings meInto the groundWhat can I doWhat can I sayI need a place to hide awayJust for a while, just for a smileJust for a life I used to knowThe perfect song were filled withWords of love and not with angerWhat if they goWhat if they leave me far behind'Cause I don't wanna be alone.. Living life for on my own I don't want to live my life in isolationFilled with empty decorations'Cause I want to be with people that I knowWho would do the things I do Making all my dreams come true I don't recognize the shadows at my doorThough I've seen them all beforeBecause the only thing I really want..Is to be with you....
posted by nsamsudin at 12:12 AM on Aug 5, 2008

it such a good song.. for me, this song is about a life story..we cannot live alone in this whole world, we need friends and our family by our side..we supposed not to live like the title of the song, empty decorations-live in ornaments that serve no purpose and do not beautify our lives..it's good to have a person besides us but we cannot depend on them to much..always try to be independent..

..hari-hari yg busan..

nk wtpe ye..
ish..
ade mlm 2 rse kt bwh 2..
kebudayaan btul.. bgusla gk..
memartabatkan lgu2 tradisional..
tp mcm psr mlm pn ade gk..hehe..
tp ni la pengalmn2 bru kt ump..

..Life in UMP..

bru blk dr camping..
agk memenatkn tp menyeronokkan..
plg best dpt 'mndi' kt sg pahang..
sronok..
the best part is bile kne turunkn rakit yg ktorg wt kt sg tu..
sume2 xkonfiden rakit 2 bleh trapung ke x..
last2 ktorg smpai gk dgn rakit ktorg 2..
sbagai ahli pasukan yg tlg wt rakit 2 mmgla bangge kn..
hsil tgn bsame.. so kesimpulan kt sini teamwork 2 penting kn..
ade yg takut2 sume, tp last2 sume enjoy dgn camp ni..
tp yg klakanye, mse 1st day sume kne bg hp kt organizer..
sume2 mcm hilg anak tnpe hp disisi..
klaka btul keadaan 2.. biasela, sume2 nk mesej ngn parents (erk, yeke..huhu)..
sbnrnye nk mesej bf ngn gf msing2 la kn..
luckily, my bf xde kt malaysia.. but i miss him la..
eventhough this activity is my subject and course that i must take on diz sem, but i enjoyed it so much.. new friends and new experience..
im glad to be here & im glad to be ump's student..

Sronoknye ari ni..

..ari ni blaja wt blog..
..ngehehe..
..walaupn rse mcm pnt je tp wt blog ni rse sronok plak..
..kls xla byk sgt ari ni..
..tp wt lab report..fuh..mencabar kewibawaan..
..huhu..